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i can see where your coming from there this is all a lie, but insteada doing your mate a favour by cheating with his girl, its better to tell yoru mate
'listen your lady is a idiot, she flirting with me', then what he does is his own cal i suppose.
by doing the deed, there is no way you can yseriously think you doing your mate a favour(i know not you mate, but in this situtaion!!!lol)


shit happens but premediatted cheating worse than spontaneous cheating in my book.

a few months back i was in uk working as fishman. i had made a few freindas and of them was a real broad local brighton lad. had two kids and lady livng 2getha. neway this lad or man really, he was bit older than me, was kinda like a bit townie, i dont mean townie as in bad, i mean like really OF THE TOWN. anyway i liked him, he may have been somewhat less knowledgable of the world as a whole than i would have hoped for someone his age, but he had a REALNESS about him, like the kinda of blood that gave himself to be whoever he was whenever he spoke or interacted.

now i have always liked making friends like that, where there is 0% pretension or hidden agendas of ne kind. now this guy came in one da and was so sexcited rushign to tell e about this 18 year old girl he'd met who wanted his dick blah blah blah. neway some other lads were like yeh mate go for it, your lady will never find out. but when he told me, i kinda just said
'what about yor two kids and your lady?'
he asked me to try be more happy for him and that he was only going t do her once or twice, but i retained my questioning.
neway the convo ended diferentyl to how he had thought or hoped.
the next day he came to work and he was in a less happy mood to see me, but he still had a smile.
i asked him whats was up and he said something like
'you mate, youre whats up, you amde me feel so guilty about that bird, so i didnt even meet up with her'
now he was annoyed wit me but in a mates funny way more than nething nasty. he not only understood what i meant but he actualy took notice and thought about what i had meant.

as for myself, only once have i even kissed a girl who I knew had a boyfreind, and thoyugh there ismore to the story than that, it was wrong of me and not something i was proud of...

so yeh i cant ever really say i think its okay to cheat.
always better to be honest.

mistaks can happen. as lust is a powerful drug to most of us. however pre-planned cheating is different and worse.

just always try to be a shonest as possible i would say and put yourself inthe shoes of whoever you are potentially upsetting before you do what you do. think about it. think about yourself. think about how you would feel if you found out someone you knew had slept with your lady whilst they knew she was with you.

what a question eh!

Too bad all those bisexual males fucked up our whole Free Love ideals with their STDs and their anal penetration. Damn AIDS

Peace~

zen, i cant say i agree with that one mate.

Zen wrote:Too bad all those bisexual males fucked up our whole Free Love ideals with their STDs and their anal penetration. Damn AIDS

Peace~

Wow. Propganda.

Bisexual males did not fuck up with STDs, anyone can transmit STDs not just those of opposite orientations. Thanks for being a jackass and please play again.

Also, there is alot more ways to have fun then just anal penetration. Trust me.

Are you gay then deamonlee?

wooah, thats gone so far! the debate was about your friends girlfriend, where did that homophobic comment come from? Free love yes, bu what about free spirit and being open minded to others and just letting them be!?

I beleive that the problem regarding the end of what we call the Free Love movement was not to do with bisexuals of homosexuals, but from people who began sharing needles with no care of the next person and no knowledge of the risks involved. With the needle sharing, people also did not know the importnace of protection ie condoms!!!

There are even more things that have lead to the spread of various stds and viruses such as Aids. Hepatitis C can be spread by sharing a tattoo needle, and you dont hear people going "damn those tattoo artists", and many times Aids has been spread through faulty blood transfusions in actual HOSPITALS where people are meant to help you, not condem you!

And to be honest, how many of you guys and girls, in a drunken moment have forgotten to use a condom and for women have rushed to get the morning after pill whithout thinking of STDs or even Aids, the fact is it can happen to any one of us? How many of you guys and girls have eaten chicken recently? "damn those Asian chicken" and the cows? "damn those English cows?" i could carry on "damn the porn industry", "damn the church for not accepting contraception".....the list goes on......

I know this sounds like an attack, but i only say this with such passion as there are many people young, old, naive, or just unaware who will take comments like that as fact. You have to look at the bigger picture!! Please look at the bigger picture!!

take care!
and remeber whether gay, straight or bisexual ALWAYS wear a condom!! it helps save lives!
xxxxx

Queen

Why did you mention gay first and straight second?

*takes offense*

Anicebud101 wrote:Would you ever bang your best friend's girl?Yes I have done it and he doen't even know,but what would you do if a hot girl(your friend's girl)
came up to you and started asking you if you want to fuck.?

I would never, under any circumstances, fuck a friend's girlfriend. If she approached me and asked to fuck, I would probably have to consider carefully how to tell my friend what happened.

Dude, it isnt anything to brag about, having betrayed your "friend" like that. I recall an old song, titled "With Friends Like You, Who Needs Enemies?"

Think about how you would feel if you really felt for some girl and some dude you trusted fucked her... Try to put yourself outside your desire to just get laid and consider the damage you have done to yourself, to him, to her, to your reputation, and remember what comes around goes around. I would reccomend trying to find some way to tell your friend what you did, if you do regret it (sounds like you are bragging a bit here) and atone. You will learn a lot about how to be a *real* friend, and about what a "friend" really is, if you try to approach this with honesty and real concern. Otherwise, I would hate to be you when the payback comes to town.

Goo

OK that post wans't just about aids or gay abshing because if you read it was directied at bsiexuals not homosexuals. Anyways, its been brought to my attention that there were alot more things that brought about the fall of Free Love. Yes it probably was an assholsh thing to say, especially reflecting upon it, but at the time I wrote that I guess I was frustrated. I'm not going to try and justify my comment, although what I said DOES hold truth to it, obviously not absolute or even a whole truth but it isn't completely false in any means.

So there, whatever else anybody says I could care less because like I said I won't justify what I said.

Now if y'all don't mind I'm going out for a smoke and this will be my last post on this subject, because well all know that cheating on your significant other is wrong. BUT OBVIOUSLY THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO DON"T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT DOING WHATS WRONG AND THERE ARE ALSO A PLETHORA OF PEOPLE WHO ENJOY DOING WHAT'S WRONG!! It's kind of a silly debate now that I think about it.

Peace~

the free love concept is obviously linked in some way to the concept of fidelity, but conversely. i coudl go on and try start a free love debat ein here, but it would be better in another post. it is an interesting subject for sure, but yeh i think this thread has run its course now!!!!
cheers
animal

ps cheers zen for expanding on your lines.

Weedguru Anex wrote:

Toonces wrote:Edit: but no seriously man if that was my girlfriend you fucked I'd shoot you in the fucking face if i had a gun, nobody fucks with my girlfriend man, if I even see some guy flirting with her, theres guaranteed to be a fight after it, with my foot on top of his fat face. I despise fucks like you.

Your a fucking ass

Uhm, I dont think you seen the first post of this thread, the guy went with his friends girlfriend, imagine it was your girlfriend, how the fuck would you feel? I was explaining how I felt and what Id do if someone done that to my girlfriend. And you had to go and say something stupid. Your such a fucking idiot. As if you'd sit there and do fuckall if someone raped your girlfriend.

I know my girlfriend would never even consider going behind my back with anyone, so she would have to be raped for me to be in this situation. And even if it was my best friend who done it I'd still kick his fucking head in.

Edit: Oh holy fucking shit, thank you Zen. When I said "if I even see some guy flirting with her" I didnt mean to say "some guy" because I still thought I was talking about my FRIEND raping my girlfriend. My apologies Anex, I was a dick for posting that, but then again I didnt realise I typed it in the first place

hell yeah man i saw this topic and busted up laughing, ill tell you why. my bud cheats on his girl all the time and just treats here like shit all the time pretty much but shes always so kind to him so one day after he finished being a dick to her i went over to talk to her while he left (he sorta lives with me and he left his girl to chill with me which proved to be a foolish mistake) so after talking to her and siding with her on all the previous shit that had hapened i asked her if he wasnt in the picture would she look at me different and she said yeah, so i didnt give a shit cuz hes gonna be going to jail for 6 months+ real soon. so now i got the freedom of being single and the convience of having sex prettymuch whenever i want

sounds like a match made in heaven