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wassup my fellow weedguru forum members this is my first post and i guess its gonna have to be a question for yall..
i need someone to talk to...
theres this girl that i love more than my life. i seriously will give up my life for this girl. she isnt the most attractive girl ive ever met but i still love her, more than anyone ive ever loved.. and im pretty sure the fact that she aint no drop dead gorgeous made me to love her personality more..... but by no means is she a bad looking girl... its just that there r some girls that are better looking then her...but anywho... weve been in a relationship for about almost 4 months now.... but we live a lil far away and its really hard for me to see her.. and we see about once a week.. but since like last month things have been different... she aint called me in like the last month... its gotta be me calling her everyday and then she tells this dude "love love you <<<3" on his myspace and she thinks i dont know about it... this dude goes to same school with her and their moms r real close and i guess he goes over her house like once a week.. and he and she have same golf swing coach and they practice together... its been like a month since she told me she love me... its always me saying i love her and then shes like yea... me too.. but she talks about him to me like if he just a friend to her... i really dont know what to do... i feel like im bein played.. but i still love her... but if i really find out that she was cheating on me with him i seriusly think i might really kill him or kill my self. and then yesterday when i was buzzed, i emailed her and told her that i really love her and told her to be real with me... and today she called me finally and asked me if i was alrite and really talked like she cared for me.... i even sent her flowers to her school and her teachers and freinds were jealous of her.. and on her myspace her best friend was like imo in concern with the flowers and him and her...
wow this post got outta hand quickly
but anywho.. what should i do... i really really love her.. and will give my life for her.. but i dont want her to be with anyone else... and the fact that she might be cheatin on me makes me really sad....... should i just aks her straight up if she cheatin on me or should i just question her... or should i dump her or what should i do.. i need some help

if the girl isn't calling you and you're the one that makes the calls then I wouldn't bother about her. You're dragging something on which doesnt seem to be interested in you enough to call you.

Even thinking about homocide/suicide is a pretty dumb thing to do in this situation. If she likes this other guy, it's her decision really.

Maybe try not to sound so desperate. I'm not sure if you sound as emo to her as you did in your post. But just chill. Spark up a J; phone her; and just be cool about your feelings for her. And if it's possible, try see her asap. Because phones suck to talk about this shit with.

Just don't be like, "OMG I loooooove you. I want to bee with your foreeever."
Just be chill.

Chicks use <3, kissy smilies and shit like that all the time. Pretty much every girl in my MSN list does it.

eachu wrote: then she tells this dude "love love you <<<3" on his myspace and she thinks i dont know about it...

but if i really find out that she was cheating on me with him i seriusly think i might really kill him or kill my self.

aww to be thirteen again

rofl

well i guess im just gonna let her go now...
shes going to homecoming with him... and i found out about it from her friend.... she didnt even bother to tell me... and then i asked her today and she says.. im just going with her as a friend and she sounded really like she didnt even consider what i was gonna feel...
so its hard but i think im gonna let her go.....

Best just to keep these feeling deep inside, lock them up and one day explode with rage killing your family and friends.. Or not

Just let her go man. I know what it's like but if feeling aren't mutual then it isnt gonna work unless you lock her up and make her love you.. but i can see some floors in that plan.

Aww man, I feel so bad for you, I'm sorry. I went through alot of the same shit, and I know it sucks. My ex just never called, never made any effort to communicate with me, I was doing all the work. That's how you know it's over dude. I'm really really sorry. I know it sucks when you try so hard but you just can't get a response and your efforts aren't appreciated.

My suggestion, never talk to this girl again. Block and delete her on msn, don't send her any letters or emails or phone calls. This may sound like something you don't want to do at first, but trust me, it's the easiest way, and it will make you feel better.

Shwoot wrote:Aww man, I feel so bad for you, I'm sorry. I went through alot of the same shit, and I know it sucks. My ex just never called, never made any effort to communicate with me, I was doing all the work. That's how you know it's over dude. I'm really really sorry. I know it sucks when you try so hard but you just can't get a response and your efforts aren't appreciated.

My suggestion, never talk to this girl again. Block and delete her on msn, don't send her any letters or emails or phone calls. This may sound like something you don't want to do at first, but trust me, it's the easiest way, and it will make you feel better.

yea do what shwoot says. it may be hard, but you'll get over her. suicide...uh dont be retarded; theres millions of girls in the world.

Suicides not the answer, Belive me.

My homie killed himself, He lost his mother to a herion overdose, Lost his father in a deal gone bad. He was living with his uncle and cousin, And his uncle repeatedly beat him, Beat him so bad he'd piss out urine mixed with blood.

He took his own life at 13 years old for that.

Ive never gotten over it, I know he would have chose otherwise if he was matured more mentally.

Life isnt fair, It never is, But ending your or somebody elses life is never the answer.

No matter how bad shit gets, It always gets better.