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Need some help agian....

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 3:16 am
by SladeHino
Okay, this help isn't really exactly for me. But it'll help. . Okay so i know someone that is young, around 13-14 she found out she is pregnant, now this person is basically family. And i'm agianst abortions so I have tried to talk to her about how she will regret it, and how it'd be better if she followed through with having the baby., I told her that, if she didn't think she could take care of it that i would try my best to take care of it. Well she eventually talked to some of her friends asking questions like "If i have the kid would you still be with me" and of course, the assholes didn't give a precise answer. So now she's pretty much saying shes getting an abortion, and her moms agreeing with her. But as for me, i'm disagreeing and i donno how to talk a kid out of something that they may regret, and stop them from murdering a baby.. She has a few weeks to decide. I just want her to do the right thing, but shes to young to understand, so please i need some help.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 3:21 am
by Rory
Its not a baby yet, its a fetus.
Let her do what she wants with it its her fetus. Not like this world needs more babies anyway...

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 3:22 am
by Ikku
I agree with Rory on this one. It's her body, let her do what she wants to do.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 3:32 am
by SladeHino
Okay it'll haunt me but oh well, i already cant enjoy smoking cause I think about it.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 3:40 am
by Rory
thats a problem only you and your concience can sort out, she shouldnt be involved. just MHO

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 3:50 am
by SladeHino
Well ok. I understand that its her own choice. But karma always comes. if me jumping someone costs, me my jaw for 6 weeks, i wonder what murder will cost.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 3:53 am
by Ikku
There's no such thing as karma.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:00 am
by SladeHino
Ahah thats what you think. Keep thinking that my friend, thats what i thought at first, but i learned quick.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:06 am
by Ikku
^Quickly.

The grammar karma just bit you in the ass.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:11 am
by AbbyRoad
abortions are not murder

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:18 am
by SpRi7e
I'd say to keep the baby, but it is pretty much throwing the rest of her life away. It also means you get more family and more responsible at the same time.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:25 am
by SladeHino
abby wrote:abortions are not murder
How so? Cause you completely got me there. Anything that kills anything that will be alive, is murder? If we went by abortions is not murder, then lets just have an abortion on every person that is pregnant, from here on. No more worrying about overpopulating, and no more worrying about life.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:26 am
by Rory
abby wrote:abortions are not murder
100% correct. A fetus is not a fully fledged living organism... neither is a chick in an egg. A fetus is not a child untill shortly before it is born, and its to late to get an abortion at that point so that isnt an issue.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:28 am
by SladeHino
Fetuses at 3 months pregnancy they get finger prints, so tell me look at any of your fingers and what do you got, how can you say its not murder? And anyway if there will be no positive help for my thread then please lock it. Everyone has there own opinions, i just say we lock it and forget about it.

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:31 am
by Rory
I don't agree with your point of view in any way shape or form.
I am however willing to let this drop as its going to the dogs.
>.<