chiggy chong wrote:i bet he's never done anything trying to look hard thats what it is VIRGIN TO THE EXTREME
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EDIT I do shag EX gf's but iinly after say a few months or more and only if i no my mate wont be pissed agian whoever u are i think u should leave the site VIRGIN
Not saying i'm a virgin, coz i'm not. But what's so bad about being a virgin? Why do you deem it necessary to insult a guy just because he has never had sex?
i didnt mean it like that what i meant is he's trying to look hard, being a poser, like u get people who come on here who pretend to smoke green there was one of them earlier this year. alot of my friends are virgins i was till a few weeks ago, i just dont like it when peeps try to be things there not he's lying and it's obvious thats all im trying to say
edit i dont have any problems with any body dont care who u are what u do or where u live or anything my current gf is a virgin so y would i have a problem i dont i just dont like liers trying to be hard lol
i have an kinda interesting technique of going after ladies who my mates like lots. its not cos i any kind a stud who thrives on a challenge, maybe when i got threatened that one of my freinds would leave our little gang and stop spending all spare time drinking getting stoned and playing pro evolution, i would have to face the threat myself!!!
so a few times i have sorta ended up with girls who one of my mates liked lots before i even had an interest in them..
as for sleeping with a mates lady, that is terrible. a terrible lack of value for friendship, loyalty and respect. disgusting behaviour in my eyes. but many people these days put lust before values.
i heard stories from various mates over he years of this kinda thing happening to others, never to me though or my real close group of people. tho a friend who i respect and liek alot did have it happen to him and he was devatsted for years after and still is to a certain degreee, he one of those guys who gave his all when he finally fell in love and then was savaged by his lady and his best mate.
i wonder if he ever got that tshirt made that was gunna say 'kill all mikes'??
we may never know. but neway yeh i thinks its absoultely terrible. a sign of either a bad person or a very confused person.....
yes it is one of the lowest failures of loyalty that a man can committ.
i mean of course sometiems i guess a love can blossom between people, but then the thing to do is to come clan , however hard it be to do. as hard as it is, honesty always the best way to go...
it gos back to this fiedlit of thoughts idea i consider from time to time.
we arent guilty of nething by our thoughts and desires alone, we are only guilty of ne wrongoding when we act upon thoughts an desires which hurt another life.
so i saying it wouldnt be as bad if a love had built up, and they came clean about it, but cheating is cheating and its savage...
i got with a married woman once but it was her that initiated it and i didnt know her husband. But i still feel kinda bad about, just another one to add to my list of broken commandments.
“Cannibalism? Racism? Dude, that’s not for us ... those decisions are better left to the suits in Washington. We’re just here to eat some dude!”
-Charlie Kelly
I didn't bang my mate's g/f, but she was getting all flirty and shit, and gave me a peck on the lips once, I didn't say shit, but he found out. Wasn't happy. It's a cunt thing to do, and I regret not telling him early.
Didn't help that I kinda liked her from day 1, so I kinda put feelings in front of friendship. But it was just a friend of a friend, but I still saw the guy at Taekwondo twice a week.
Yeah, I've never made a girl cheat or anything, but something I'm still not proud of and was deffinitely a moment of weak will was when I made out with my bf girlfriend less than a day after they broke up, even though they never really acted like boyfriend or girlfriend, they kind of acted like unics 24/7 around eachother. APparently there had been an underlying chemistry for a looong time, since before they were dating, between her and I. I kinda knew it but never dreamed of acting upon it, I respected my best mate yway too much. I had many times told him to break it off with her because it was a pointless relationship though, but he was the type of guy to get very fixated on one girl and not think of anything else, even if he didn't pay much attention or anything to her.
It was an assholish thing for me to do, I never even asked him to do this before stuff started happening between the two of us, which is like the CARDINAL RULE. I've never really forgiven myself for it, and even though we've talked about it now and it's all in the past and "forgotten" I don't think he's ever forgiven me for it either. He's the type of person to just try and bury the past in memories leaving many things unresolved because he dones't want to disturb the calm air. Which really gets on my nerves sometimes because it makes for at times very uncomfortable silences where you can almost here the other's seething thoughts.
He was so calm about it I had to basically tell him how angry he was at me. But the chick moved away now, and we've decided that bros before hos is the best belief. Bothers me that he still holds that resentment, even though I"m certainly deserving. I fucked up, I was weak, and I should be condemned for it not forgotten, but perhaps forgiven with understanding. I don't know.
Anyways that'll be my contribution to this thread.
Peace~
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Depends on a combination of two things; how good a friend he is and how hot the girlfriend is.
If it's your best mate, then it doesnt matter who it is, you don't do it. Same goes for all our good friends. Quite good friends you can only do it if their girl is really hot. Aquaintances girlfriends are fair game. It's like sleeping with a strangers girlfriend, except its easier for them to hunt you down, but you would deserve that anyway.
cheating is cheating. if you know a woman has a man. whether he is your mate or not, if you engage in any lustful games with the woman, it is wrong. cheating is savage and at any age it can fuck people up emotionally and mentally for a very long time into their later life.
i really cant see how any decent ma could call another man hi sfreind when he is going behing his back and having his lady. its a one of the worst flagrant abuses of loyalty available to man in the modern world.
we see it on tv so much in films int he papers all te cheating the secret shagging the hotel rooms. sometimes its drink. sometiems drugs. sometimes just cos someone looks hot and the man is lonely or the other way round.
whatis important in any situaion is to put yourself in the guys place(the guy whos lady you are going to take or use in some way), then think how you would feel if someone was cheating with his lady, and one of his mates at that.
stranger or mate, if a man has alady, then you dont steal her, unless yoyu have formed alove over time and she feesl it to, then you must pursue it with zeal, cos its thisep aths that offer th greatest potential for love and soulful happinesss. but yeh only in that situaion. in all others i would say it is terrible and the sign of man who places significantly more interest and conviction in his pleasuring his dick than in been a decent human being....
love cant be controlled, but lust can. fucking your mates lady justr cos she looks nice is pathetic, really pathettic. it just shows a complete lack of wisdom of any kind.
Bullshit. If the girl was in love with the guy, she wouldn't be coming on to you. If she is willing to drop him in a second for one night with you, then what she has with him is obviously no more special that what she could have with you. For her he is a dick with a wallet. If anything, you're doing him a favour by ridding him of his unfaithful tramp of a girlfriend rather than wasting his life treating her like a lady.
ive never fucked around with a mates bf but i have done it with a few girls behind their bfs backs. not to screw those guys over but when i like a girl, i go in for the kill. shit happens sometimes
Been back a few weeks though
