So, what should I do?

Jizmo · Post by **Jizmo** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 4:33 am

Here's the story. I got a friend named Taylor, he's prolly my best friend, I get my pot from him, smoke it with him, smoke his and mine. He's 14, I'm 15, he's fucked before, I havn't even so much have got a kiss. Anyway, he's usually being called by everyone, namely girls, who are hot. He doesn't wanna invite them when me, or any friends, are around. He says it throws off his game. I can't really meet girls on my own, I'm ove weight and don't have much confidence. So what should I do about this, I really wanna get smashed with my friends AND some chicks.

GAZ · Post by **GAZ** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 2:12 pm

One of the reasons you lack self confidence is because you are overweight. I dont mean this horribly but if you lost a bit of weight your self confidence would greatly improve. All you need to do is play it smooth around the aldies dude, just chat to them like you normally would chat to someone. Obviously about stuff that the girl would be interested in though

jamo · Post by **jamo** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 2:26 pm

Dont worry about it too much. Your 15. Your love life wont properly kick in until you go to college or start going out clubing at 18.
And "Getting smashed" isnt the best way to meet girls, ya know.

MOT · Post by **MOT** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 3:36 pm

Go somewhere where you can meet them thats not so forced. Your 15 so make some new mates or just explain all this to your mate and see what he says.
Good luck man. This is gona sound very pesimistic but it gets harder the older you get, meetin birds that is. Start hittin your 20's and people start to get married.

GAZ · Post by **GAZ** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 4:23 pm

It is definately easiest to find a gf when you are about 15 or 16, when your 18 it just seems to be sex after sex, which is gd, bt maybe not great if your lookin for a gf instead of a 'sleeping partner'

MOT · Post by **MOT** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 4:29 pm

GAZ wrote:It is definately easiest to find a gf when you are about 15 or 16, when your 18 it just seems to be sex after sex, which is gd, bt maybe not great if your lookin for a gf instead of a 'sleeping partner'

Im pretty sure he's still lookin for his first glance at a set of beef curtains

Fri Dec 16, 2005 7:42 pm

i don't see how people can just fuck someone and then leave it. I'd never have sex with anyone unless i felt a great dealfor them.

Post by **WeedGuru_Flow** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 7:58 pm

A_Fire_Inside wrote:i don't see how people can just fuck someone and then leave it. I'd never have sex with anyone unless i felt a great dealfor them.

You're my kind of guy (well not meant in the gay way you know haha)

I feel the same, people just fucking to have sex are, in my humble opinion, Perverted bastards with a desire to get HIV-infected.

That friend of yours isn't realy a good kinda person to hang around to much

And, as said before: Getting smashed is NOT the way to meet girls

Its much more fun when your sober when you meet them, and then go out for a toke together ... two ppl, the stars,the moon and a joint

aaah.. Romance

Dr. Greenthumb · Post by **Dr. Greenthumb** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 8:00 pm

tap that ass man...well all i can tell you is that when i was a younger kid i really stressed about not being a virgin. you're only 15 dont worry about it so much...i ended up getting laid when i just stopped giving a crap about it.

BUDA · Post by **BUDA** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 8:11 pm

Getting smashed is NOT the way to meet girls

Can't say i totally agree with this

Post by **cutthecashflow** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 8:24 pm

GAZ wrote:One of the reasons you lack self confidence is because you are overweight.

And I don't know why I find this funny, but I do.

Dr. Greenthumb · Post by **Dr. Greenthumb** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 8:55 pm

i know many fat guys that have good game...

GAZ · Post by **GAZ** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 10:03 pm

Its proven that overweight people have more of a certain chemical flowing round their body. This chemical is a depresent. Everyone has it just fat people have more of it.

Jizmo · Post by **Jizmo** » Fri Dec 16, 2005 11:11 pm

Ya but mostly all my friends have got action, and it's a little hard not to think about it when there's these extremally hot chicks there, that I know I could win over. I'm usually funny, and when I'm stoned I don't have any worries so I have all the confidence I need. So it woudln't really mattered if the girls were blazing or not, I'd still probly be in with them.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to get girls drunk and stoned so that I can take advantage. Cause when I read over what I said, it kinda looks like it, but that's not what I'm thinking.

Post by **Weedguru Higher** » Sat Dec 17, 2005 12:19 am

Dude, even if you are overweight you will still find yourself a lady. There are people out there who look further than skin deep .

I lost my virginity at age 14. Sounds odd but it was the girl who pressured me into it. I was at a stage in my life where I was looking to do the most rebellious things I could and sex seemed like a great option for me. I realized not long after that that is was not the right option. I just didn't feel good about myself cause I knew it had nothing to do with love..it just wasn't right. I didn't have sex again until I was 17 I think. The girl I slept with blew her horn all over school saying she had fucked with me. See, I'm not a bad looking guy and I had a reasonably nice physical shape at the time cause I worked out and was an active sports player. She got some kind of fame from having screwed with me. I didn't like that at all, it made me feel worse. I felt like I had actually done something wrong

It's no biggie to go through highschool without having sex. When all your friends get to be in their 20's I'm sure they will all admit to that..like my friends did. People mature and get over the whole thing. They look deeper as they get older.

You will find the right lady for you I'm sure of that. Maybe no t at the time you wish, but you will.

You know what I really like? It's when I see some jock from back in Highschool today, 10 years later. And this hot jock guy is now fat. When you meet up with someone like that they know what you are thinking, and they feel bad inside themselves..you can see it in their faces. Same thing for girls. Those hot pussies from back then who have given birth to 2 kids suddenly don't have the same physique anymore.

I know plenty of guys that are not so good looking that have very hot girls. You rarely see this in HS, but later on you will. Girls mentalities change to you know. Sex doesn't come off as being such a priority anymore. Establishiing as family does. It's a girl like that that will find you.

Actually now that I think about the 'ugliest guys and girls from back in Highschool were actually the first ones in later years to get married and have kids. Cause these people are not superficial. Superficial people rarely have long lasting serious relationships

Some stay superficial like that forever. But look at where they are today. They are still bar hopping and are with a different girl every time you see them. They have no kids..or they pay child support to three different women. That is not happiness...

Keep your chn up kiddo, your time will come. Be patience, the right time and the right woman is well worth waiting for.

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