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short story short, i broke up with my bf of 1 year to date a loser slacker trash bag who i had been cheating on my bf with. we decided that sneaking around wasn't for us, and we tried to settle down or w/e.

a couple of weeks go by, and i find myself living on the basement floor of a drug dealer/coke head.

i broke it off with him, but i find myself being drawn back to him. the last time i saw him i gave him 30 bucks for a quarter, and then he stopped answering my calls. pretty much he robbed me.

my problem is this, even though he is a burnout sonofawhore i can't stop thinking about him. he fucked me over so many times but i just can't seem to get over him...i can't bring myself to hate him. i just want to be there for him

am i in love or am i just dumb?
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You're dumb.
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Post by andriaSRH »

no, but really.
i have screwed him over a couple times, maybe he is just trying to get back at me?
i think we'll be together in the end
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Post by Weedguru_Fire_Inside »

i think you fucked thinngs up royally

you cheated on your boyfriend, had the fucking nerve to break it off without telling him. started screwing around with a coke dealer, started fucking him over and now he's getting back at you.

karma's a bitch,
you are dumb.
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Post by (weedguru)scarf »

although i wouldnt put it quite that harshly i think the gist is right

you have the bad boy syndrome... it keeps u on ur toes...

but in the end its ur life and no matter what people say on here
u will do what is in ur heart
is ur head strong enough to tell ur heart to be smart?
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Post by MatteN »

cokedealer is a sweet way to fuck urself over permenetly and quickly


by all means go for it
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Post by Ikku »

Drug dealer/coke head, if he is selling coke you definitely do not want to be around him. Coke dealers attract the worst type of attention.

"i think we'll be together in the end" is just wishful thinking, take a look at the situation you are in and tell me that you want it to continue that way. If you do, then by all means, do whatever you want.
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I just saw your situation take place first hand the past year, except the fiend boyfriend was hooked on pills and everything to do with pills. He honestly turned into a completely different person once he started with the shit daily and now hes dropped out of school and selling pills full time. he's broken up with his new girlfriend about 5 times since they started goin out 5 months ago and shes only 14 an hes 18. I never thought I'd see the hardcore drug life in first person but what can you do? This story is just the beginning of this fiends life, too. It's only gona get worse.

So that being said, don't fucking get involved with fiends cuz they don't give a fuck about nothin but the drugs, and that's the truth. Just do wut u gota do to stay away from him and if u need something get it off someone else.
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Post by MatteN »

Never underestimate what someone will do when they are desperate.

that's a very important rule to remember.


and sorry for my horrible spelling and grammar in my last post in this thread, it had been a long night
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Post by xMDSx »

I think your just addicted to his shit and you cant leave him cause you need his stuff. He prolly spiked whatever hes givin you so you cant stop buying and getting your stuff from him. :o
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Post by andriaSRH »

xMDSx wrote:I think your just addicted to his shit and you cant leave him cause you need his stuff. He prolly spiked whatever hes givin you so you cant stop buying and getting your stuff from him. :o
the truth is , is that i was was going coke with him for a little bit (yeah i know i was dumber then hell, i'm off it now), after we broke it off he went to jail and when he got out he starting selling to me. he told me that he loved me, and our word was "forever" he would always tell me "forever babe"......then like i said i gave him 30 bucks and he stopped answering my calls or calling me, or doing that whole "forever babe thing"
no i'm not desperate. believe it or not i'm back with my old boyfriend (the one i cheated on) i dont know why he took me back, but he has always been there for me and i'm grateful to have him
i think the more time i spend apart from my "bad boy" the more easier it is to forget about what we had
so yeah, i'm dumb, but i think i'm a little smarter now lol
drugs make people do stupid things
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Post by MatteN »

i'm glad to hear your doing better.

you need to show your current good boyfriend some serious love for what he went through, treat him to a good time and make him feel secure u won't pull any bullshit like that again.

cause u don't want him to go and do something just for revenge or be secretly pissed at u lol
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Post by Jay212 »

why is it that girls are always tryin to be in a relationship? I see all these fuckin girls gettin dumped left right and center and right away they go out looking for someone else. and the whole "being alone" story is bullshit. you're still a kid, you don't need this shit in your life right now. it's NOT going to work out no matter what happens.
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It's the nature of the female to look for relationships. For a male to have a kid, all he has to do is get a woman pregnant, but for a female to have a kid she has to carry it for 9 months and then take care of it after it's born. So females naturally try to get a lot more out of men and relationships than guys do, think of it as a return on an investment.
I personally recommend checking oneself for OCD at least once every 5 minutes.
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Post by Weedguru_Fire_Inside »

Ikku wrote:It's the nature of the female to look for relationships. For a male to have a kid, all he has to do is get a woman pregnant, but for a female to have a kid she has to carry it for 9 months and then take care of it after it's born. So females naturally try to get a lot more out of men and relationships than guys do, think of it as a return on an investment.
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